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Hot and Bothered

The Erotic Life by Lone Morch

In a world where everything is sexualized instead of humanized, I worry that we’ve lost touch with the sweet eroticism in life. To me, being human, life itself is erotic. It’s a being alive to the magical, pulsating, ecstatic body and universe we live and experience through. It’s a way of being in the world in a sensory and tactile way, leading and relating to others with your energy awareness and senses.

But you may not notice. Because you are not home much. In your body. In your flesh. In your senses. And you may be a little afraid of the sexual, creative fire that lives at the core of your being and what it might do, should you fan the flames. Will you explode? Kick your lover out? Binge on sex? Follow your dream?

The inclination of (our) nature is to (pro)create. The bees and blooms kind of thing is literally taking place all around you, all the time. It’s taking place within, continuously creating and destroying our bodies and being. Sexual communion with another human being is simply an expression of this entirely creative process. You attract, build up heat, enter one another, explode, and die. A life and death dance. The inclination to co-create is so strong and it is not for nothing that condoms were invented.

Life is fecund and sex is merely a facet of life’s eroticism.

Perfunctory or performance oriented sex with release as goal, no longer seems so interesting to me.

I know my sexuality is the central life force within me. It fuels everything from how I show up in the world, to my creativity, to play, love making and communing with the divine.


Award-winning writer, fine art photographer and coach, Lone doesn’t like to put herself in a box. A visionary soul, she’s also a rebel priestess, muse, word teaser, sacred space keeper, fire-footed dancer, fierce seer and mystical being. She’s a lover, sensualist and queen of all things delicious. She’s tender-hearted freedom fighter and get-things-done diva. Above all she’s a hopeful romantic relishing life’s magic and mystery. To her, life is about exploring inner and outer worlds, expressing herself fully, freely, and she hopes to inspire YOU to discover and express yourself with depth and delight. Check out her blog: Divinely Furious.